From the very beginning of my intuitive counseling work, I began to realize that nearly everyone who came in for help essentially reminded me of the same crisis points I encountered in my own life. During these times problems seem insurmountable in personal relationships, family situations, career as our lives seem to crumble. A lady I just recently talked with said that she felt out of the main stream current, swept up in an eddy, like a helpless person caught on a snag unable to get back in the flow.
It is moments like these that you might find yourself sitting down on the bed, head in hands asking the question, “How did this all come about? I feel crazy and out of control of my life. Nothing seems to work. I can’t handle it.” In short, you find yourself at wits end. You have come to a fork in the path of your reality; it is a critical point in life. It is like being out on the end of a limb and every effort to solve the problem only seems to cut it off. This crisis situation can be compared to an erupting volcano.
THE CRISIS POINT
Let’s consider the volcano analogy for a moment and specifically the fact that volcanoes don’t just spontaneously erupt – they gradually build up from internal pressure deep within the earth. The bottom line is that they bring destruction when they go off. When we reach the exploding point, we too go off. However, keep in mind that deep emotional changes take place below the surface before we erupt. Volcanoes bring major destruction, but deep down tectonic plate shifts are rearranging the structure of the earth. In a similar manner, when faced with crisis - we are at an integral creative junction in our lives.
SIGNS OF CHANGE
The telltale signs of these deep, internal processes can be seen in the form of the loss of job, spouse, friend, or the realization that our most dependable core beliefs no longer work. What we perceive in and around us is chaos. People don’t realize that at a deep, integral level of the self they are undergoing a major transformation. They are caught up in the throes of change. Like any change, it can be painful. At times like these people are faced with the fear of being drawn helpless into a whirlpool of swirling emotions that they can’t control. This is especially frightening for people who have problems adjusting to change. Struggling to remain in the safe womb of the past, they wish that time would stand still.
The cold truth is that from the moment we are conceived until the day we die we will continue to move onward like a ceaselessly flowing river and there is little we can do about it. Hence, struggling against the river’s flow will only increase the pressures from its momentum. Life teaches us that we must adjust to change and learn to flow with its current. Perhaps this is why many spiritual paths warn us of the futility of resisting and encourage us to adopt humility and a passive attitude; we must let go and let God lead us back to Source. Unfortunately, it isn’t always that simple.
Loneliness, isolation, fear and anxiety are surface indications of deep, internal issues which need to be resolved. Crisis and resolution are dual parts of one whole. For instance, when a baby cries we know that it needs changing, nursing or other forms of parenting. Like babies, during times of crisis we need help, although we may think we are able to deal with it by ourselves. The truth is, when we cry out in anguish we need someone who understands our situation.
THE WORK OF AN INTUITIVE COUNSELOR
That’s where the services of a gifted intuitive counselor are helpful. A wise psychic counselor can recognize the signs and help you address them accordingly. Remember that crisis is a divine call for holistic growth and release of your higher potential. Thus, change is good and the more intense the pressure - the greater the potential for constructive growth. Think of it this way, the more energy you have to channel into constructive change, the greater the probability for you to achieve your higher potential.
As an intuitive counselor I can see into the bigger picture behind the crisis and reorient your energies accordingly. Instead of being a victim of destruction during this period of crisis, I can help you channel this flood of energy into a constructive course.
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